They're nice kids. I am not feeling as overwhelmed as this week ends, although I still have so many things I need to accomplish. Getting some things stored where they're not in my way will be helpful as will getting a ball cart and tossing out a bunch of things that have probably been sitting there for ten years, unused. Oh, and a new garbage can, too. The one we have is no bigger than a fart bucket, as my grandma used to say.
I got out some new watercolor paints Friday morning. Owen said, "Are these new?"
When I told him they were, he said incredulously, "Wow! How did you get them?"
I said that they'd been in the box I picked up at the office.
He said, "Wow. We never got new stuff here before. We're a small site, so they don't really care, I guess."
I didn't want to tell him that Heather, last year's site director, was
She doesn't seem like the type of person who doesn't like kids, I think she's just really young and inexperienced. It seems like she didn't really try to find and do things the kids would like and enjoy/take care of business. The effort it takes to get to know the kids on an individual basis and find out what each one likes and is interested in is a good start.
I may be wrong. I don't know what she did there. But some of the things the kids have said about never getting new supplies, running out of cups 'all the time', never having milk for breakfast... those are things that she should have taken care of.
You can go to the office and get cups and trash bags and ziploc bags and paint and paper and books and toys and rugs (although apparently not a door mat... haha) and ask for things you need/want for your site. Yeah, it's a pain in the ass to drive over there. And I plan to not do it as often as possible.. but still.
We're handed 50 dollar gift cards to stop at the grocery store and buy milk as needed. "Keep your receipts and turn them in with the card when there's only a couple dollars left and we'll give you another one." So running out of milk isn't necessary. I did not have milk for the kids for a few days because the fridge was full of mold and unusable, but that wasn't my fault either.
Also, no one from the office has visited my site yet. No supervisory person has come in while program was in operation and observed what's going on and how the children are being cared for.
As much as I
*sigh*
ReplyDeleteIt will get there. Honest. And those kids will KNOW that they matter...
I returned to work three days ago. I spent 3 hours cleaning up. It's almost back to "normal" and I think I have found all the mis-delivered mail. And wouldn't you know it? I somehow got roped into working my day off AND I think I may be coming down with a cold.
Goody.
I want everything to be perfect right now. All my stuff in a place where I can find it, the routine in place. Eric pointed out to me that in my last place, those things did not happen overnight either. And that my way of doing things and the fun we had was a process, dammit.
DeleteI'm trying to be patient.
Glad you're back to work, but working on your day off? With a cold?
No. Thanks. One thing to work with a cold on a regularly scheduled day...
I've been visiting for a number of years and I'm pretty sure Eric is right. LOL!
ReplyDeleteHe usually is right. Smart guy. Things are coming together and I am feeling a lot better about the new placement. But part of my heart got left behind at my old school. :)
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