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Wednesday, March 12, 2025

Letter to a Parent

I sent this via email to our school secretary so she could forward it to this child's parents.
He's not one of 'my' kids. I had to do a little detective work to find out which child it was, helped by the fact that one of my kids is in his (2nd grade) class. I asked questions and finally found out.
I couldn't just let this one go by.

As always, kid name/school name changed.
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Hello,

I'm the director of the (shh it's a secret) after school program at Excellent Elementary.

I wanted to tell you what a great person Kevin is.

Last week, I was arriving in early afternoon to set up program. Kevin was on the playground with his class for recess. He and a bunch of friends were playing soccer. I usually wait at the gate until it's safe to cross that section of the blacktop, knowing that they're very serious about their soccer games.

On that particular day, though, I didn't have to wait. Kevin saw me standing there waiting. He came to the gate and told me, "I will walk with you and protect you."

He accompanied me across the back of the building, keeping himself between me and the game, despite my telling him it wasn't necessary.

He held up a hand, ready to block the ball if he had to.
"I will keep you safe," he promised me.
He did, too. I was safe all the way to the building.

I have told many parents over the years of doing after school care that the wonderful things their children do when the parents aren't around really shows how well those kids are being taken care of and taught. It's obvious that Kevin has been shown integrity and heart by his demonstration of those things.

Thanks for raising a fine human.

10 comments:

  1. Aww what a sweet kid.

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    1. And 100% he didn't need to do that. Thought the least I could do was let someone know. :)

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  2. What a nice kid. I think it was great you sent the note. Everyone is always quick to point out fault but forget to point out the good.

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    1. The school secretary said that Kevin's older brother is like this perfect little angel and that sometimes Kevin isn't noticed for the good stuff he does. She thought his mom would be pretty pleased to get the note. I just couldn't let it go by without saying something.

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  3. Awe!!!! I love this!

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    1. One of those meaningful moments. I so love what I do.

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  4. That is adorable! And, I'm so glad his parents are going to hear about it. And, you're right. As parents, knowing your kid is doing right outside of your line of sight is the best feeling. I recently heard something along the lines of: " We can teach our kids right and wrong and values and morals until we're blue in the face. But until they do it on their own, they're only renting your rules and values. They have to own it for themselves"

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    1. So true. There's a lot of talk about 'kids these days ' but I think they're generally wonderful.

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  5. And the world thanks them too.

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    1. I believe most kids are great humans. It's when they start to grow up a bit that things can start to change a bit. Life does mean things or parents or other kids do mean things... and sometimes kids are affected adversely over and over. But I think this kid is just going to continue being a good person.

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