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Friday, February 07, 2020

Lyssa Update

Pixel came wandering out of the burned out kitchen while Alyssa and Mason were in what's left of their house, surveying the damage.

A visit to the vet let them know that her throat was sore from smoke inhalation, but that her lungs are good and she should be okay.

They escaped with nothing. No shoes, socks, underwear.
All the necessities one needs, like toothbrushes and girl stuff.

I'm humbled by the generosity of my friends and family.
I'm not going to mention names here as the gifts were privately given.

But I can tell you that some of the people who gave money to my daughter are people who have never met her. OR me. I have a group of friends I've been chatting with online for over 20 years. And some of them sent money.

A guy I went to high school with and haven't seen in 40 years? He sent money to her.

A friend who had her daughter in my girl scout troop.

Another friend who also had a girl in my troop and has been my friend for many years.

Someone who entrusted her kids to me for a couple years about 28 years ago sent money.

More than one relative, too.

I'm glad we kept Lyssa's checking account here. I can put money in her account in an emergency situation. I'm pretty sure this qualifies as an emergency.
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So Lyssa tried to call me when they were sitting in the ambulance watching their house burn and my phone didn't recognize Mason's number as an emergency contact. So the call didn't go through.

But I heard her. She was saying, "Mom. Mom, wake up."

I woke up and looked at my phone to see what time it was. And saw there were three phone calls from his number.

When I talked to her a couple days later, she TOLD me that she had closed her eyes and sent out with all she had, "Mom, wake up."

That stuff runs in the family.
It's not out and on view all the time, but now and then, it comes in handy.
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The fire marshall has determined the official cause of the fire.
The chimney 'professional' who charged them nearly one thousand dollars to inspect/repair their chimney put paper-backed insulation against the stove pipe. Alllll along it. The paper was clearly stamped 'FLAMMABLE do not put near a heat source'.

I don't know what will happen with that. I know that I want to go there and find the guy and tear his head off with my bare hands.

The fact that it's not likely that I could ever do it doesn't stop me from wanting to, though.

She's okay. Mason is okay. Pixel is okay.
I'm grateful.

10 comments:

  1. I know that you can't control what Lyssa and Mason do, but I'm thinking that the first thing they need after underwear and toothpaste is the name of a good lawyer. It almost sounds like arson to me. They need someone who will go for the throat for them. This is one of those life changers that they will be talking about when they are in their 70's. I'm so sorry that they and you are having to deal with all of this.

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    1. One of my friends is from that area. She has many connections there still. I got a name from her and have passed it on. Not being in control is really difficult for me, I want to go and fight for her when she's capable of standing up for herself. I'm having a lot of trouble with emotional fallout, so I can't even imagine what it's like for her to deal with all of it. Things have a way of working out, but it's going to take time, which really sucks.

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  2. whatever company that idiot works for better have had decent insurance, as they are liable for their idiot employee. Who i doubt is going to be an employee any longer. So g;lad to know they are ok, and Pixel will be ok, too.

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    1. I don't know much about the company. I can tell you they were VERY unprofessional, but I don't want to put details up, not sure if that would ever make a difference, but just in case.

      Pixel had a sore throat and was pretty quiet for a few days, every time she tried to purr or vocalize (I understand she's usually pretty chatty) she would cough. She's doing better.
      I'm a mess, but I'm sure not nearly as much as Mason and Lyssa, having gone through it.

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  3. She's okay. Mason is okay. Pixel is okay.
    I'm grateful.

    As are all of us who read your blog!

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    1. Aww, thank you.

      It's the first thing on my mind in the morning and wakes me up multiple times during the night.

      I try to just appreciate the good part... my daughter and her guy are alive.

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  4. I'm glad to her everyone is alright.

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    1. Thank you so much. They will be okay, I know it. It's a terrible blow, they are just starting out in life and have worked so hard for the few things they had. So many people have reached out to them and sent support that I'm humbled.

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  5. So good to have friends....and I'm so glad that they are all right!

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    1. Yes and yes. And I know they'll be fine. But it's an awful thing and I want to FIX it. I know I can't. But I want to.

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