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Tuesday, July 05, 2016

Today I learned

Hm.
I tell my kids that I learn something new every single day. It's true. I don't always keep track of the things I've learned, especially when school's out and I'm not having discussions with my kids.

But I do learn every day. A lot of that learning happens here, while I am sitting in front of my computer. Some of it is interesting stuff that I can't believe I didn't know already. Some is stuff I'd never think of in a million years.
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For example, five years ago NASA launched Juno... and today (July 4th) it arrived in orbit around Jupiter. Now as far as I know, man will never walk on Jupiter. Too much gravity, we'd turn to jelly long before reaching the surface. And it would take a hell of a long time for a manned craft to get there anyway. I don't plan to volunteer.

But I've always been fascinated by space exploration. Science fiction has always been my favorite genre, although I've made forays into just about every other type of story and book. So the idea of men in space, or of us sending crafts out to explore always gets my attention. It's just cool.
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I learned today that the rumors about black dye are true, too. It's a pain in the ass to dye something with black dye, and I'm not sure the things I made are going to turn out black. But if they don't, well, that will be a learning experience, too. I'm hoping for at least dark gray.

I already knew that dyeing is hell on my hands. I try to keep my gloves on, but sometimes I don't have the dexterity I need to shift a band or take the cap off a bottle of dye and have to ditch one or both gloves. Then it takes a week or two for all the dye to wear off. Except the dye that got into my cuticles. That takes up to a month, because the nail has to grow enough for me to be able to either scrape or cut off the offending part.
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There was a recall on fireworks this year. The headline? "14,000 cone fireworks recalled for fire hazard." Um, isn't that the point? Fire?
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I read an article about a private school in New York. The curriculum includes telling white children that they were 'born racist' and should feel guilty for what they've done to black people. I will find you the link in a minute.

Ah, here it is.

Born racist? No. Racism is learned. And with all the divisiveness from all sides of the issue, kids are learning it younger and younger.

Now I realize that slavery here in the US was a horrendous thing. Any student of history knows there were several factors that led to the enslavement of not only African people, but others. Not all slaves had brown skin.

All of them were treated badly... even those who had 'good' masters, because of course no one should be a master or a slave.

But I utterly refuse to feel guilty about it. I did not enslave anyone. The slaves are dead. The people who enslaved them are dead, too. I think it's sick to tell a child that they need to feel bad for what happened during that time. I believe it's important for people to know what happened and how it happened, but I'm sick of the idea that I should somehow pay for it or that I should feel guilty.

The thing that really got me about the article (aside from the utter craziness of blaming some children for being white...as if they have a choice) is that their parents don't like this. They're being vocal about it. But they are afraid to put their names out there because their children are still in the school. What the fuck? If your child is in that environment and you don't like it but you're not doing anything about it, you're definitely part of the reason that shit like this is going on. These social justice warriors are getting rich because they're selling discord, divisiveness and hate. And school administrators are lapping it up.

Fucking crazy people.

Get your kids out of there!
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So I learned a few things today.
I do every day.

What did you learn?

12 comments:

  1. It's been a long time since I did any tie dye, but we used to do a super quick rinse with bleach and then immediately wash our hands (we'd have the water running before we poured the bleach) and that really took care of the dye. Didn't seem to harm our skin, but we were in our twenties and impervious so who knows what would happen now. Completely out of the question with kids of course.

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  2. Bleach is really not good for your skin, though. Not that soda ash and dye are innocuous, either, but bleach? Nope.

    I used to work for Russell Stover in Montrose, Colorado. They asked for volunteers one weekend to come in and clean out some of the chocolate beetle hotels under the conveyer belts.

    We all got a scraper, a bucket of hot bleach water and some cleaning rags.

    My skin split, broke out in a nasty rash all the way up past my elbows and took months to clear up.

    I realize a tiny bit of bleach applied quickly probably wouldn't do that... but why take a chance.

    Plus there's the whole 'a lady's hands proclaim her habits' thing. I'm dyed, but underneath it, I'm as much of a lady as I've ever been. Make of that what you will. ;)

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  3. We tell our kids that God made everyone different, plus explained about how UV rays can change skin color and after centuries, different colors happen, etc. But really when they're 4, it's like, hey that's just the way people were made. The end. Until some jerk nose decides to tell her that they are afraid of people of a different color.

    I'm still not sure what happened but now my 4 yo is terrified. My husband knows where it happened and likely who did it and said he would take care of it, here it is a MONTH later and he still hasn't done a dang thing. Of course I wasn't THERE so I can't do anything about it. I can re-inforce the messages the child has gotten all along from us in the same bland manner as if talking about the weather but the truth is someone said enough to scare the piss out of her.

    I know it was an adult because of the way words were repeated back to us and how the language used was not a child's language and certainly not how WE talk at home. Oh. Still so very angry.

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    1. Oh that's awful. What a shame. WHAT is wrong with people? Rhetorical question, of course.

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  4. Born racist, what a concept! I would have thought much more that it is an attitude that is handed down from generation to generation. I grew up in the South during the civil rights movement. Atlanta was about as ground zero as you could get. I regularly heard racial slurs used in everyday terms. "Now, that's the pot calling the kettle black" or "A (slur) wouldn't have it!" It amounts to indoctrination on the next generation. It took a father who also told me that nobody was better than anyone else. That a person is judged by what they do and not who they are. That God made everything with vast variation and that it was all good. This is what he taught us.

    When I began exploring my genealogy, the first truth that I had to face was that some of my ancestors were slave owners and slave traders. I had to come to the realization that I do not own what they did, whether it was good or bad. Some of my ancestors took part in the Salem Witch Trials. I don't own that either. I have never put a rope around anyone's neck.

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    1. I utterly refuse to apologize for things I did not do. I am sad those things happened. Had I lived during that time, I would probably have thought along similar lines to those I lived with and learned from. I'm glad we are better in some ways than we were then, but I don't think we're heading in a very good direction as a society right now. Not that it matter what I think, none of them have consulted me.

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  5. I don't believe we are born with any thoughts on race, or hatred. Heck, if we were born in a jungle, with only our own kind and no access to media, we probably wouldn't even know what racism is. I hope I raised my kids to base their opinions of people on their own merit/personality/character, etc., rather than preconceived notions, media, or anything else.

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    1. Exactly. Base your opinions on who they are, not how they look.

      I don't care what color you are. Just don't be an asshole. That sums up my feelings on race.

      That's my religion, too.
      I just try not to be an asshole.

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  6. The firework display for our town exploded this year, or rather, one misfired, and then set the entire barge on fire. Turned a 25 minute display into 7 minutes and scared the crap out of everyone watching from neighboring boats. Plus, now the shrapnel and "still live" explosives are washing up on all or beaches... I wonder if these fireworks are part of the recall...

    What did I learn today? That sometimes, when you're feeling really crappy, if you can find joy in the little things, it won't be so bad. Course, I suppose I already knew that, but you know... the toast I made today came out perfect... so I've got that going for me.

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    1. I'm bummed out that I didn't hear or see that on the news... remember like in 2012 when the ones in San Diego all blew up at once due to a computer glitch?
      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IvulaROLsfg

      Toast. I haven't had toast in ages. Hm.

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  7. Ugh...I read the article and am outraged. I don't know why the problems between people is becoming worse (in regards to ethnic division, because I don't like calling it "race", because we are all humans ~ well mostly, lol) All of this reminds me of my last semester class, which basically was the same thing wrapped up in a 3 credit course. Honestly, I believe most of the students felt uncomfortable. I'm never putting myself through another class like that again.

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    1. It's getting worse because it's being fed to every child who's incarcerated in the public school system. The white guilt. I acknowledge there is a problem with how people view others... law enforcement included. But it's wrong to try to make people feel guilty about something they can't control... the color of their skin. NONE of us get to choose that. YES talk about it. Explain to children what privilege is. Teach them compassion. Don't teach them that they're shit because of racism. The children didn't invent it.

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